A tribute to a true icon of education
Mrs University of Mpumalanga (UMP), Professor Thoko Mayekiso, has decided to call time on her tenure at the tertiary institution she helped to build, shape, and future-proof. As a tribute to the legendary leader, colleagues, students, and friends have come forward to share their memories of Prof Mayekiso as a small token of appreciation for all that she has done for them, the students of UMP, and the South African education sector as a whole.
The word 'legend' carries with it a lot of weight. While it is often thrown around with ease, only a few truly deserve the title. Professor Thoko Mayekiso is certainly one of those who deserves that title... and then some.
The legend of the South African education sector has decided to call time on her career as the Vice-Chancellor of the University of Mpumalanga (UMP) after over a decade at the helm.
Prof Mayekiso's dedication to the UMP cause has helped to shape a tertiary institution to be proud of and one which will be able to continue to thrive thanks to the foundations she has set. It's a legacy that does justice to the meaning of the word.
To thank her for all that she has done and achieved over the years, a number of her close friends, colleagues, and former students have come together to remember her selfless leadership and the long-standing impact she has made on them and countless others who have walked the halls of UMP.
Early Influences—Growing Up with Greatness
Ntombentle Ngxongo shares her earliest memories of Prof Mayekiso, as well as what stood out for her back then.
"She was a curious little girl. As one goes about cleaning the house, she'll point at items so you can name them. To speed up the process, you must find something to occupy her. An old newspaper would always assist. You'll soon hear her laughing and clapping hands. Funny enough, she never tore or squashed the paper," she remembers.
"At school, she was a fast learner. She easily got bored when the teacher was busy paying individual attention to slow learners. This attitude gained her a better position in class. She was made a monitor to assist the teacher."
Ngxongo recalls a few defining moments in Prof Mayekiso's youth that would play a role in shaping the remarkable leader she would later become.
"In high school, the going got tough. We were never allowed to relax, even during the holidays. Having finished our chores, we were told to take our books. We complained, and the answer was that there are still examinations to prepare for. When Thoko was in Form 5, in her class, they were given a task to prepare in Geography. She was assisted by her father, who was also a teacher. After school, she was so proud of herself. She was the only one who performed well. She even demonstrated how she was praised by her Geography teacher. After answering each question, he'd say, 'Masihambe Thoko, let's pass to the next question.' That's what the teacher used to say," she remembers.
"At times during holidays, we used to travel. Along the road, we used to meet or see children begging for anything from passersby. She used to share whatever she had. We tried to discourage her by saying they will always beg. The answer would be, lives are enriched by people who serve others."
When it comes to her upbringing influencing her values and commitment to transformation, Ngxongo believes Prof Mayekiso was destined for greatness thanks to those around her.
"There was plenty of love and some attention from the parents. This is shown by what she did to many needy people. To mention but one, when she needed somebody to help her in the upbringing of her son, when this small lady arrived, she asked her about her education. Sometimes she came back with forms to be filled so that she can attend classes to improve her standard of education. They took turns to look after the baby. The lady completed her matric and got a better job. Thoko knew that if you want a lifetime of popularity, help others. She is the pride of the family. Masihambe Thoko," Ngxongo concludes.
Tertiary Journey—The Academic Ascent
Prof Joseph Diescho, a Namibian writer and political analyst, knew Prof Mayekiso during her university years—and even then she commanded respect from those around her.
"I knew Thoko Mayekiso as a quiet, very dedicated BA Psychology Honours student, meaning she was ahead of me and we looked up to her as a remarkable woman and role model. She was unassuming yet very present wherever she was amongst her peers," Prof Diescho remembers.
Prof Diescho states that Prof Mayekiso had a way about her that made others follow in her footsteps, including himself.
"Thoko stood out as a trend setter and like her brother in the academic field she showed clear signs of leadership. Being a young woman with an outstanding personality, we looked up to her and she inspired us to go for post-graduate studies as well. We were not surprised when we learned that she went abroad to continue her studies. I was one of those who followed her life, and as a consequence, went to apply for studies in Germany upon learning that she was in Germany. That is how I ended up tracking her down in Berlin in the early 1980s," he explains.
Prof Diescho never doubted Prof Mayekiso's abilities and was not surprised to see her rise up the ranks in South African education circles.
"Being a trailblazer as a black woman showed that she was ready for strategic leadership in post-apartheid South African nation-building challenges. I saw her rising to the occasion when she started to assume leadership and strategic planning roles at the University of the Witwatersrand, Nelson Mandela University, and later University of Mpumalanga, where she built a university from the ground up. Starting a formidable center of learning and steering it for over ten years is by no means a small feat in Africa," he continues.
There has always been a resilience to Prof Mayekiso, Prof Diescho explains. This resilience would later help to shape the leader she would become.
"To my knowledge, Thoko was the first African woman to midwife a rural university which now stands out as a fully-fledged Developmental University in Southern Africa and the envy of many, even older universities. She meandered her leadership path through the many contradictions in South Africa, such as race-based, gender-based, and ethnicity-based rivalry for influence and power.
"One area wherein she excelled considerably is to steer clear from political party politics and she focused on the tasks at hand and not pander to the whims and pressures of politics.
"There were several attempts to undermine her efforts and her leadership, but she triumphed. In so doing she did what many of her peers did not do: lead with integrity and build an institution that will stand as her shadow when she leaves office."
Professional Evolution—Building a Legacy
Prof Cecil Bodibe, a powerhouse of South African education in his own right, feels Prof Mayekiso was always destined for success not just because she upskilled herself to the highest level, but because she conducted herself in the right manner.
"Prof Mayekiso has always been disciplined and focused. She worked to a plan, as evidenced by not just doing the bare minimum. She would go out of her way to learn more and to add value far beyond the mere call of duty. She allowed herself to remain curious and ask the critical questions to gain a deeper understanding," he explains.
"Her commitment to continuous professional development is remarkable—constantly exposing herself to opportunities and seeking spaces where she can grow as a person and as a professional. She realised the benefit of exposure and benchmarking internationally early in her career, and the many sojourns she had abroad provided building blocks that would advance her career. She would embrace feedback and grow from it. Always keen to learn—yearning for growth and development all the time."
The way in which Prof Mayekiso navigated the often complex landscape of leadership in education and public service is second to none, Prof Bodibe believes.
"Prof Mayekiso has a decisive streak. She would take time to ponder over an issue, but once she has her mind made, she does not get easily persuaded to the contrary. Her decisiveness and assertiveness have helped. When you are at the helm, you have people 'who take chances', to use a colloquialism. Such people stood no chance with her because they knew where she stood and remained resolute and unwavering," Prof Bodibe insists.
"Her training as a Clinical Psychologist allowed her insight into self—bolstering her EQ (Emotional Intelligence). This she has always had in abundance. Her ability to listen attentively and have empathy levels that are appropriate, has made her approachable. She has not been one to shy away from difficult conversations and confront tough situations. These elements or characteristics are essential for effective leadership in the complex spaces in which Prof Mayekiso led with aplomb. Authentic leaders like her who are not wishy washy put a personal stamp in their context, and this allows them to lead effectively."
There have been many stand-out moments and achievements which have defined Prof Mayekiso's professional impact, a few of which Prof Bodibe took the time to highlight.
"Her ability to mentor and empower others is noteworthy. She has been deliberate about transformation and ensuring that women are not left behind. Equity and equality are seminal to her. Many of the women she promoted at Masters and Doctoral levels went on to have great careers, inspired by her. Even at the University of Mpumalanga, there are students she mentored who are now literally flying and confident to take on the world. One sees this empowerment trend, even in how she empowers her Personal Assistants. She understands that the more they are effective and efficient as people, the more they will serve her office appropriately," Prof Bodibe reveals.
"Her high levels of determination and dedication saw her get to Berlin in Germany—learn and master the language—and go on to write a Doctoral thesis, which she obtained cum laude for. Excellence is a habit to her."
As a woman in positions historically dominated by men, it has not always been easy for Prof Mayekiso, but Prof Bodibe believes that she is and has always been the right person to break barriers.
"Prof Mayekiso comprehends in a profound way that once you are good at deliverables, you quickly earn respect. Once people notice how good she is at what she does, she earns trust and respect. What is more, constant engagement and effective communication allows her to bridge the gender divide and break the glass ceiling. Her towering intellect, coupled with being humble and unassuming, have been great attributes to buttress some of the stormy winds of patriarchy," he concludes.
Impact and Inspiration—The Human Touch
Dr Nomvula Twaise, who is the current Director of Student Housing at the University of Mpumalanga, has a lot to be thankful for when it comes to Prof Mayekiso's influence on her career.
"To call Professor Thoko Mayekiso my Psychology undergraduate and Honours degree lecturer, or my PhD Supervisor, would be to underestimate her impact on me. She has been all that is mentioned and so much more. She was my first guide when I entered the then University of Transkei, illuminating the path with patience and wisdom. When I looked at her in the classroom, young as she was, I was inspired to become a psychologist and follow in her footsteps," Dr Twaise explains.
Prof Mayekiso is known for being warm, resilient, and a visionary thinker, traits which Dr Twaise is not ashamed to gush over.
"From my early steps in the first-year lectures to the demanding yet rewarding journey of pursuing a PhD, uncertain and wide-eyed, she featured in my career path in a way that one would describe as a divine plan. She was always there throughout this journey, not through deliberate action at times, but through some divine intervention not known to us. She did not teach me with only textbooks but with her grace, resilience, and genuine care. She saw potential when I doubted myself and created space for growth beyond the classroom walls," Dr Twaise says.
"While doing an Honours degree, I chose a topic that landed me in her research interest. My supervisor, Prof Mayekiso, not only taught me to produce an Honours research project but also to publish journal articles from my research project. I could not believe that what I had submitted would be taken to that level. And, yes, we published our first journal article in one of the prestigious psychology journals, which is still cited today. She took me through that journey up to the PhD level."
Dr Twaise is eternally grateful to Prof Mayekiso for what she has done for her, while she believes her overall impact across education should be praised for what it is—inspirational.
"Prof Mayekiso has shaped more than just my academic journey, but has even touched my life in the world of work. Her leadership has been a quiet yet powerful anchor throughout it all. I have witnessed an outstanding visionary and transformative leader who has taught us resilience through words and actions of commitment, consistency, and determination at the University of Mpumalanga," she adds.
In terms of the values and lessons Prof Mayekiso has instilled in those around her, Dr Twaise was quick to praise her ability to lead by example and do things the right way.
"Her anchor on the values of UMP taught us that organisational values are fundamental in building institutional culture. Inculcating values such as excellence, integrity, diversity, collaboration, adaptation, relevance, and inspiration across the board at UMP has not just yielded in knowing the values, but students, staff, and even the partners of UMP live, learn, and pride themselves on how their lives have changed just by living the UMP values.
"The number one UMP values champion is the founding Vice Chancellor of the University of Mpumalanga. Professor Thoko Mayekiso has proven in South Africa that building this country can be done without engaging in corrupt activities, like we see happening in other places today. Prof Mayekiso is the epitome of excellence, par excellence," Dr Twaise concludes.
Legacy and the Future—The Story Still Unfolds
Dr Paul Mamimza, the Dean of Students at the University of Mpumalanga, believes that Prof Mayekiso leaves behind an enduring legacy—one which will live on for generations to come.
"Prof Mayekiso is an excellent example in terms of managing time and talent. She leads by example and is a stickler for excellence. Her judicious use of power and incisive insights into human behaviour have allowed her to leave indelible footprints in the hearts of those that she led. When Prof Mayekiso was appointed as the Founding Vice-Chancellor of UMP, she was tasked with the responsibility to establish a university from nothing. Many may not realise that she was tasked with, and for, a national project. Establishing a university in a province where none existed before meant carrying the hopes and aspirations of the people of Mpumalanga on her shoulders," he explains with a sense of pride.
"The government of the day put its trust in her to ensure that one of the first and only two universities to be established in democratic South Africa is delivered. And, we are all here to confess that she delivered. She has not only succeeded in establishing just a university but a state-of-the-art institution that has become a beacon of hope for the government and people of Mpumalanga, in particular, and the whole of South Africa, in general. This achievement confirms that Prof Mayekiso's legacy is the one that will bear perpetuity in the lives of many. She will, indeed, remain the only woman of our time who 'turned a golf course into a University'."
There is no doubt that Prof Mayekiso is going to be a tough act to follow, so Dr Mamimza is urging the youth of today to learn from her and aspire to reach her lofty heights.
"The youth of today is the luckiest generation that has someone, a living example, who is a model to learn from. Prof Mayekiso has shown the younger generation, especially women, that nothing beats staying focused and remaining committed to the course. She is also an ambassador of education as she has, throughout her academic and work life, shown that education does not only liberate but also empowers those who embrace it," Dr Mamimza insists.
"The youth has someone in Prof Mayekiso through whom they can realise and appreciate the importance of remaining ethical and moral in their lives. Prof Mayekiso was able to stand the test of time because ethical and moral leadership remained the foundation of her life. Prof Mayekiso, thus, epitomises the model that our younger generation should look up to."
Dr Mamimza describes Prof Mayekiso's journey as "astounding, exceptional, and pioneering"—and it's difficult to argue otherwise.
"I use those words due to the fact that remaining consistently and constantly excellent throughout a career spanning over three decades is not an easy feat. She ventured into unknown or unclaimed territory to establish and lead UMP to the university it is today. Prof Mayekiso's journey opened up new areas of thought, development, and growth. She was a pioneer in establishing UMP. Her journey required someone who was brave to take the challenge to enter into the uncharted waters. Her journey was indeed a pioneering one," he says.
As we celebrate Prof Mayekiso today, Dr Mamimza is hopeful that her story continues to inspire future leaders, which he again feels is an imperative to learn from for any young, aspiring leader looking to reach the very top.
"To be the best, learn from the best—the pedigree of leadership, dating back to her educator parents and grandparents, planted seeds in her which she cultivated and allowed to flourish.
"I hope and trust that the nation can realise the depository of knowledge and experience that we are blessed with in Prof Mayekiso. I hope that institutions of higher learning, in particular, and our government in general, will have the wisdom to remain close to, and in association with, Prof Mayekiso so that they can continue to benefit from her vast experience and knowledge," Dr Maminza concludes.
And we could not agree more with all that has been said in this cover story. Prof Mayekiso has been a regular on the pages of BBQ Magazine over the years. We too have felt the impact she has made and we wish her nothing but the best in the next chapter of her story.
Inspiring Others To Succeed—A Generational Leader
Moses Sithole, Academic Talent Stewardship Programme Fellow and Associate Lecturer from the UMP School of Agricultural Sciences, pens an open letter on behalf of Prof Mayekiso to the young African women starting their academic journeys today—imploring them to stand up and stand proud.
Dear young, enthusiastic African women,
I am privileged to share with you some words of advice as you start your academic journey. You are embarking on a journey that will test your intellect, challenge your resilience, but ultimately transform you. I have been where you are. I have learnt from it myself, having others who walked ahead of me to learn from their successes and sometimes failures. I have walked and stumbled, risen repeatedly and each time I rose, I realised that each challenge was to teach me new but invaluable lessons and was, of course, my ladder to where I am today.
There will be moments of doubt, especially for you as young women. Feelings that you are not adequate and often feel like your voice isn't lurid enough, especially, as an African woman. But allow me to be clear, your presence in the academic space is not an accident and your unique perspective is not a weakness but your greatest strength. As a young African woman, lean on your Africanness, and curiosity. Do not shrink at challenges but befriend your ambition and never undermine your Africanness and intellect. Academia needs your brilliance, your enquiries, and leadership, especially, as an African. The current debate on decolonisation of education in Africa requires people like you, with the vibrancy that you are bringing to the academic world.
Be mindful of the fact that true scholarship is not a solitary pursuit, but a journey with other minds like yourself. Therefore, seek for mentors, establish a strong network of both local and international intellectuals, lift other African women as you rise and they will lift you up even more. Always remember that your success is not only yours, but for all of us, African women. Therefore, go forth, be the change you want to see in Africa, and make the change. The stage is yours, make a mark and be in the annals of the African story.
Borrowing from Frantz Fanon's work, I encourage you to refuse to be made to feel inadequate or invisible, whether by the colour of your skin, culture or even language. Your worth as a young African woman is not to be defined by foreign standards, but mostly by self-affirmation and validation. As a young academician, I encourage you to speak your language with pride, where possible, nurture your mother tongue, and traditions, as I have done in my leadership journey, especially, as the Vice Chancellor of UMP, where I encouraged the celebration of Africa Day, and excellently demonstrated that one can be a successful African academician.
Young African women, never forget that the business of the future is not to repeat the past mistakes but to create a new history for both men and women. Therefore, the future is ours to create and not to inherit.
Thank you.
A Message of Gratitude—The Prof Mayekiso Effect
Moses Sithole also penned a letter to Prof Mayekiso herself, thanking her for her leadership, guidance, and pioneering spirit in creating a university to be proud of.
Dear Prof Mayekiso,
Thank you for leading by example. Living true to the adage, 'Example is better than precept'. Prof TV Mayekiso, the opportunity to reflect on your monumental impact on my life and that of the UMP community for over a decade fills me with profound gratitude. The pioneering journey, from a visionary concept to the flourishing institution, University of Mpumalanga is not merely a tale of organisational growth. But it is a testament to the transformative power of purposeful, excellent, and ethical leadership, and, of course, intentional leadership decisions. You have excellently cultivated an academic ecosystem that now nurtures over 12 000 students and has yielded more than 2 000 graduates, a figure that speaks volumes about your strategic fore-and-oversight and unwavering dedication to educational and leadership excellence. This achievement, including the university's first Ph.D., underscores a commitment to scholarly rigor that sets a benchmark for all aspiring leaders in the academic sphere. You have set a tone and an excellent example for many to emulate. You have successfully modeled true leadership.
What further distinguishes your legacy, Prof, extends beyond the quantifiable metrics of enrollment and graduation ceremonies we have witnessed at the UMP. Your leadership embodies a rare fusion of high values, humility, and excellence. You have epitomised these two values and made them practical for anyone to follow in your footsteps (Luhambo Lwemhlahlandlela). You have, over the years, demonstrated that true leadership power lies not in authority but in service. You have practically demonstrated that the most stable and sustainable (durable) organisations are built on a foundation of integrity and grace (the humane approach you did not only speak about but lived to). As an alumnus, I have personally witnessed how your virtuous character has shaped the ethos of our university, inspiring a culture where intellectual curiosity and moral conviction are equally revered. This moral compass you have provided has not only guided the UMP's trajectory but has also profoundly influenced the personal and professional paths of every individual who has had the privilege of walking its halls. With this, I stand tall and say, my UMP, my pride, because of your work as a pioneer in our pioneering journey as the UMP. I am sure that the majority of the alumni would say the same about you.
Prof, I want you to know that your influence, therefore, is not a passing phase but a permanent fixture in the annals of our province's history. The "aroma" of your virtue, that unique blend of humility, excellence, and unwavering integrity, will linger for generations, permeating the spirit of future students and leaders. The institution you built is more than just a place of learning; it is a living monument to your phenomenal leadership. It is a beacon of hope and a testament to what can be achieved when a singular vision is executed with an unshakeable commitment to human flourishing. Thank you for being an intellectual and moral lodestar for us all. I am blessed to have been the beneficiary of the light you brought to Mpumalanga. I am grateful for the 10 years I have had to learn from you and be impacted by your exceptional leadership skills.
Thank you for being the great leader that you are.